
Dealing with acute stress in the moment and taking control of our stress response.
Here we are focused on acute stress, those short-lived bursts of potentially high-intensity stress which can feel unpleasant and undermine our performance if not handled with insight and skill.
Typical sources of acute stress include:
- Unexpected events (job loss, breakup, medical emergency)
- High-stakes situations (public speaking, job interviews, exams)
- Conflict and confrontation (arguments, workplace tension)
- Time pressure and deadlines (last-minute tasks, running late, traffic jams)
- Physical danger or threats (accidents, natural disasters)
- Overstimulation (crowded, noisy environments)
- Performance pressure (competitions, auditions, presentations)
- Sudden change or uncertainty (bad news, disrupted plans)
The symptoms of acute stress include:
- Rapid heartbeat
- Shortness of breath
- Sweating
- Muscle tension
- Upset stomach or nausea
- Dizziness or lightheadedness
- Shaking or trembling
- Racing thoughts
- Irritability or agitation
- Difficulty concentrating
- Feeling overwhelmed or panicked
- Nail biting
Q. Are you experiencing acute stress?
The first level of zoom-out is to recognise when we are in a state of acute stress. Acute stress is familiar to us all. The above sources and symptoms of acute stress may help us get a little more clarity.
When we are gripped by a stressful situation, we are in fight, flight or freeze mode. This is evolution’s way of helping us deal with challenging situations even if it means overreacting. Better to be safe and alive than happy and stress-free.
The steps below will help you zoom-out further, to step back from the stressor and your stress response itself and gain more control.
Q. Is your focus unhelpfully narrow?
When we experience stress, our focus tends to narrow.
Again, this has an evolutionary advantage in that it increases our chances of survival and passing on our genes when it really matters. In most cases, this is an overreaction.
We are facing a challenging situation.
But just when a broader perspective could be most helpful, our focus has instead narrowed in a potentially unhelpful way.
For example, we can become fixated on a single course of action which may be hindered. We persist as this is the only course of action we can see in this moment when in fact other options may be available to us when we zoom-out.
So when we experience stress, keep in mind that by zooming-out and applying the actions below, we can not only keep things in perspective but also open our mind to other ways of seeing and dealing with the current situation.
Q. Are you breathing optimally?
When we are stressed or feeling anxious, our breathing diminishes. So just when we may need our maximum internal resources, we are cutting off the oxygen supply!
Some have referred to this dramatically as a “self-lobotomy” as this can severely undercut our mental faculties (pre-frontal cortex).
“Anxiety is excitement without breath.”
― Fritz Perls, founder of Gestalt Therapy
So let’s not forget to breathe!
Breathing is usually automatic but in this case we need to take control and breathe intentionally.
Action |
Belly breathe in through your nose & slowly exhale through your lips. Feel the sensations. Repeat a few times. |
This grounds us in the present.
It helps us step back from the situation.
It increases the flow of oxygen to our mental faculties.
This gives us more control over our minds.
Q. Are you excited?
When we feel stressed, this is our body’s way of readying us to deal with the situation.
Our physical reactions of anxiety and excitement are extremely similar – raised heart rate, dilated pupils, etc
We can reframe our stress response as excitement for action.
Action |
Tell yourself “I am excited” |
We feel more empowered and less of a victim of circumstance.
<o> Arousal
Q. What is causing you stress right now?
Name it.
Be specific.
See also:
Q. How much of the stress is due to how you are viewing the situation?
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<o> Cool Off
<o> Stress Bucket
<o> Stress Audit
<o> The Pledge
<o> Second Arrow
<o> Next Positive Action
<o> Wise Distraction
<o> Catchphrase
<o> Blast Radius
<o> Burnout Detector
<o> Inverted U
<o> Stretch Zone
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